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Upgrade the Operator. The School Will Follow.

November 09, 20252 min read

Upgrade the Operator. The School Will Follow.

Most school leaders try to change outcomes without first changing the operator.

We chase:

  • new initiatives

  • new tools and platforms

  • new workflows

  • new staffing structures

Yet we skip the one upgrade that changes everything:
the operator.
You.

Why does this happen?
Because most leadership advice avoids the uncomfortable truth:

Schools don’t outperform the psychology, habits, and standards of their leaders.
They reflect them.

Let me explain…

  • If the leader is overwhelmed → the culture feels frantic.

  • If the leader avoids decisions → teams stall and wait.

  • If the leader is exhausted → instructional focus drifts.

  • If the leader is clear, calm, energised → momentum becomes reliable.

This isn’t about blame.
This is about power.

Myth: “If we fix our systems, the school will run smoothly.”
Reality: Systems follow state.
If your energy and clarity aren’t stable, no system can save you.

The Shift

Identity → Energy → Decisions → Results.
Not the other way around.

You don’t wait to feel ready.
You act your way into readiness.

Take action—today

1) Name the Result:
What does “winning this week” look like for your school or team?
One sentence. No paragraphs.

2) Choose One Lever:
What single leadership action most moves that result?
Not five. One.

3) Do the First 20 Minutes:
Momentum is created in minutes, not months.


A deputy principal felt “completely overwhelmed.”
Competing demands. Fires everywhere. No momentum.

We didn’t build another system.
We built a decision.

Result:
Lead with calm authority so the team mirrors clarity, not urgency.

Lever:
Daily Alignment Cue before acting:
“Is this aligned with the leader I’m becoming or the patterns I’m escaping?”

(This interrupts autopilot, people-pleasing, and crisis spirals.)

First 20 Minutes (every day):

  • Identity Statement (1 line):
    “I am a leader who ______.”
    e.g., I create psychological safety. I decide quickly with care. I protect time for learning.

  • Purpose Check:
    List the 3 priorities that matter most today.
    Not tasks—priorities.

  • Alignment Action:
    Do one immediate action that expresses that identity.
    Work it for 20 minutes—tiny is fine.

Outcome:
Relief. Visible progress. Confidence.
Momentum—back on.

Lesson:
You don’t need more time.
You need fewer unmade decisions.

Your turn

Where are you:

  • Waiting instead of deciding?

  • Planning instead of starting?

  • Hiding behind “busy” instead of building capacity?

Write it down.
Act for 20 minutes today.

If you want the 7-Day Momentum Audit (Education Edition) to guide this step-by-step, reply OPERATOR and I’ll send the link.

Tabitha Leonard is a certified high-performance coach, speaker, and leadership facilitator with 25+ years in human behavior and change. She blends the science of high performance with the art of transformational communication, holding two international coaching certifications and accreditation in Conversational Intelligence®. As the creator of the Inside-Out Leadership System™ and author of three books, she helps leaders build clarity, energy, and presence to lead with trust and impact. Through her signature programs and newsletter, Tabitha empowers leaders to align who they are with how they lead—creating sustainable success from presence, not pressure.

Tabitha Leonard

Tabitha Leonard is a certified high-performance coach, speaker, and leadership facilitator with 25+ years in human behavior and change. She blends the science of high performance with the art of transformational communication, holding two international coaching certifications and accreditation in Conversational Intelligence®. As the creator of the Inside-Out Leadership System™ and author of three books, she helps leaders build clarity, energy, and presence to lead with trust and impact. Through her signature programs and newsletter, Tabitha empowers leaders to align who they are with how they lead—creating sustainable success from presence, not pressure.

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